I Want to Trust You, but I Don’t by Lysa TerKeurst

Final Rating:

Rated 4 out of 5

Date of Completion: 09/07/2026

Published by: Nelson Books

ISBN: 9781400211838

Cover:

Rated 3 out of 5

Writing:

Rated 4 out of 5

Content:

Rated 4 out of 5

Turns out I needed this book addressing the complexities of rebuilding trust—and how painful experiences can impact our relationship with God—far more than I initially thought. The writing is conversational and relatable, blending biblical truths with personal stories that resonate deeply. While a few parts felt repetitive and I would have liked more context about Lysa’s journey, this did not lessen the book’s impact. The reflective questions and practical steps, in particular, helped me process my own experiences, and I found myself in tears more than once while reading. By the end, I felt empowered to continue healing, trust wisely, and believe in God’s goodness.

 

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Discussion Questions (Contains spoilers!): 

Q: Do you have any similar book recommendations?

Nothing I’ve read recently comes to mind as a similar read that explores trust, discernment, and healing from hurt. However, Forgiving What You Can’t Forget by the same author, Lysa TerKeurst, seems to cover similar ground.

Q: What are the biggest betrayals of trust you’ve experienced, and how did you respond in the moment? What steps did you take to cope, heal, or rebuild? Does any bitterness still linger, and have these betrayals influenced the way you trust others today?

Q: Do you tend to prioritise staying safe and guarded, or building connections with other people and belonging? How has this shaped your relationships, and what do you think would help create a healthier balance between the two?

Q: Would you say you have blind trust or wise trust? What factors influence your decisions about whom to trust, and how can you strengthen your ability to build wise trust?

Q: Have you ever found it hard to trust God during a challenging situation? What helped you work through those feelings, and how could you better handle similar struggles in the future?

Q: In what ways are trust in God and trust in others connected?

Q: How have your emotional struggles and healing helped you become stronger, wiser, or more self-aware?

Q: What part of the book challenged or encouraged you the most, and why? Which practical steps or tools discussed in the book do you hope to put into practice moving forward?

Q: Was there anything in the book you didn’t fully agree with or viewed differently?

 

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